6 Ways On How To Attract Love In Your Life

By Joyce Mason

July 22, 2016   •   Fact checked by Dumb Little Man

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If you’re single, then I’m pretty sure you are looking for the right life partner. If you are, you need to have a good understanding of how to attract love.

Finding true love for life requires more than just talent and beauty.

There is no doubt that lasting relationships are hard work. Sometimes you have to go through bad dates, headaches, upsets, and disappointments before finding real love. The bad love, however, will teach you valuable lessons and make you stronger and better at relationships.

It always good to understand the top relationship issues among couples before falling in love. Like prevention is better than cure, knowing the various issues before attracting love could help you get better at your relationship game.

If you’re looking to attract real love in your life, here are six awesome ways how you can do it:

1: Realize your true value and love yourself

If you want to attract the love that you deserve into your life, you must first realize your true self-worth.

It’s actually not very common that we evaluate ourselves but doing so helps us to understand ourselves deeper. You not only set standards for yourself but also learn how you can improve as a person. When you wish to be treated in a certain way, you need to treat your partner in the same way.

On the other hand, when you fail to realize your self-worth, then it’s no surprise that you don’t realize what others are worth as well. That’s when you start abusing and upsetting others more, which in turn leads to unhealthy relationships.

No matter what your needs are — relating to your health, career, ambition, and relationship — make sure you realize what your value is. Be humble in victory and learn from failures. Learn to love yourself. By doing so, you will start attracting positivity in your life which is the true love that you’ve are hankering for.

See Also: 11 Simple Ways to Fall in Love With Yourself 

2: Have realistic expectations

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As you learn to love yourself, you will discover new boundaries where you need to draw the line. When you consider your strengths, there is a pretty good chance that you might start setting unrealistic expectations as well.

For example, if you are OCD about cleaning habits, then you might start expecting the same from your partner. Love is all about having the best of understanding and living for each other – you don’t need to set mighty big expectations for your future wife.

Expectation is one of the biggest enemies of any relationship. The more you expect from your partner, the more frustrating your relationship could be. Keep love as the single most priority and all others secondary.

However, there is nothing wrong in being open and honest and expecting the same from your partner. Good understanding and trust stems from being true to each other, so it never harms to expect love and trueness after she comes into your life.

3: Get comfortable with your own company

Once you have realized your self-worth, the next thing to do is learn to feel content in your own company. Don’t forget that you are the only person responsible for your happiness and sadness, so the more you start loving being alone, the more calm and peaceful your mind will be. In turn, you will find it easier to deal with your partner in case an issue arises.

This is one reason why you see people deal with breakups much easier than others. Some never come to terms with the separation but those who know their inner self better are able to lead normal lives after the breakup.

Sometimes, being in your own company is good because you don’t want people who deprive you of your happiness.

4: Figure out what you want

Look for the right partner who will travel the distance with you. When you choose the wrong partner, you are wasting your time as well as her time.

Love is an expensive affair that requires a lot of time, money, and effort. Of course, there is the emotional attachment as well.

Figure out what kind of a partner would be the right choice and write down a realistic expectation so that you can always check back to ensure you’re on the right track. At the end of the day, you have all the freedom to choose whom you want in your life, and she must really be the one that you really need in your life.

5: Identify the toxic ones

Even if you have determined the requirements of your ideal life partner, there is always a chance that something might not click as you’d expect. Sometimes, you will find that your first love is your best match ever. Sometimes, you might have to go through 10 breakups to find the best match.

However, the purpose of your search is to flush out the toxic relationships and attract the one that keeps you happy. Red flag toxic relationships if you are unable to tolerate them beyond a certain point.

6: Understand what real love is

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Infatuation is different from true love. Sometimes, you might find yourself attracted to a girl and feel like she is the only one you ever want in your life even after knowing that she isn’t the right match for you. Maybe she is more dominant or she is conditional.

Again, you need to remind yourself that you won’t get 100% satisfaction in such a relationship. You might love her from your heart but the question is does she love you equally, if not more? Once you both love each other equally and you feel that you both are made for each other, that’s when you have found the perfect love.

See Also: 20 Best Love Quotes to Inspire your Love 

Stop looking for temporary love and start attracting real love to lead a healthy, peaceful, and happy life. Cheers!

Joyce Mason

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