What is your biggest fear when you are on a date with a woman? I know a lot of guys who would say that their biggest fear is to land in the zone that no man wants to land in. As you can already imagine I am talking about the friend zone.
It never feels good when a woman tells you that “you are such a nice guy, but…” especially when you are really into her. It always hurts when a woman puts you in the friend zone.
However, it is not as bad as you probably think. In this situation you have the choice between two different reactions. You can either hang your head in shame, or you can accept the fact that she is not into you and become friends with her.
“What did you just say? Why should I become friends with a woman?”
On the one hand, a good friendship with a woman can enrich your life and on the other hand, having a beautiful woman as a friend can get you more dates than a Lamborghini. Let’s have a look at why female friends are the perfect wingmen.
1. Other Women Will Notice You
I guess you have already been to clubs with your buddies. How many women looked at you when you walked in with five guys? I guess that there was not one woman who took notice of you. A guy who walks into a club with a bunch of other guys is simply not that special.
What do you think happens when you are walking into a club with an attractive woman on your arm? Now the whole thing looks a little bit different. I guarantee you that there will be at least one or two girls who can’t get their eyes off you.
“Who is this guy and why does he have such a beautiful woman on his arm? There must be something about him.”
Your friend doesn’t have to do anything. Her presence is enough to motivate other women to stare at you.
2. She Will Introduce You to Her Friends
A great way to meet women who you might even end up dating is by expanding your social circle and the easiest way to expand your social circle with a lot of beautiful women is by having a beautiful female friend. It is a law of nature that beautiful women have beautiful friends.
Let her introduce you to all her female friends. Maybe one of her friends is the girl of your dreams who you end up in a relationship with. You will only find out if you have a female friend who has a lot of gorgeous friends in her social circle.
3. She Can Teach You A Lot About Women
A lot of men would be scared to death when they would find out about all the explicit and dirty things women talk when they have one of their girl’s
conversations. Until I met my best female friend I always thought that women are innocent little angels who don’t even think about sex. Since I met my best female friend I know that this is wrong.
You can learn a lot about women during conversations with your female friend. Ask her whatever you want to know and in case she answers your questions in an honest way, you will know more about women than 90% of your competitors in the dating game.
She can teach you how you have to talk to women, how you have to touch a woman and how you have to kiss a woman. Just make sure that she is not one of those girls who tell you that the dating tips they show in Hollywood movies are actually true.
4. You Become More Confident Around Women
Spending your time with a female friend is not only a great opportunity to learn more about women. Having a female friend in your life will automatically increase your confidence around women.
Most men who are very unsuccessful with women are too afraid to even look at a girl and to talk to her. Whenever they are in the presence of a beautiful woman they start to become nervous and insecure, which is anything but attractive.
Having a female friend around you will automatically cure this insecurity and after you know her for a couple of weeks you won’t even remember how it feels to be nervous around a woman. The more time you spend in the presence of a beautiful girl, the more comfortable you will become around women in general, even if the girl you spend your time with is just your friend.
5. She Can Promote You
Do you want some free promotion? Then get a female friend and let her do the magic. Whenever I am in a club with my best female friend she is the one who makes sure that I don’t have to sleep alone.
Whenever I approach a girl I also introduce her to my friend. After I talked with her for about ten minutes I get us something to drink and during that time my friend promotes me in the best possible way. When I come back the girl I approached is already so fascinated from all the stories she heard about me, that I don’t have to do much to seal the deal.
Women are always attracted to men who other women approve with the “great guy” stamp. If you have a female friend who is willing to promote you, you will have it a lot easier to attract amazing women into your life.
Sebastian Harris is a travel enthusiast and lover of women who helps men to find the women of their dreams while traveling around the globe. You can read more about him at www.globalseducer.com.