When you’ve gone a week without smoking, treat yourself to an ice cream cone. At one month, make it a steak dinner. After a year, go on your dream vacation! But do come up with ideas for smaller rewards all along the way to keep you going. Pamper yourself, because you deserve it!
On your quit date, toss out all smoking paraphernalia.
Make sure you quit for good and make it stick by dumping cigarettes, lighters, matches—everything that has to do with smoking. If you’re tempted to keep any of this stuff, then you’re not serious about quitting.
Don’t get discouraged.
If you “fall off the wagon” by bumming a cig off a friend, don’t beat yourself up. It took you a long time to get to this point, so you may not be able to quit overnight. If quitting were easy, there would be hardly any smokers left!
Don’t let family and friends sabotage you.
There are times when half of a couple wants or needs to quit and the other one doesn’t. This can make for a stressful situation that’s not conducive to kicking a long- term habit. If you’re quitting due to health problems, like a quadruple-bypass last week, your life is at stake and you need to communicate that to your partner.
Your significant other may feel resentful, like s/he is being forced to quit despite not being ready. Try to be sensitive but firm, since quitting is a smart move for both of you. Don’t let a partner who is still smoking tempt you to join in—be the stronger one.
Curb cravings with healthy snacks.
If you have the urge to suck on something, make it a sugarless lollipop. Carry snacks like sunflower seeds, pistachio nuts, gum, sugarless candy or apple slices to munch on when you feel the urge to put something in your mouth.
Start an exercise program.
If you’re worried about gaining weight when you quit smoking, then start burning more calories with exercise. Besides making you healthier and leaner, exercise releases endorphins that make you feel more positive and less stressed. Another benefit of regular exercise is that it keeps you busy and less likely to be thinking about cigarettes.
If health problems are your main impetus for quitting, you have even more reason to take up exercise. Not only will you be improving your overall health, you’ll feel much better, stronger and be less prone to depression.
You don’t have to hire a trainer or join a gym, although both are good ideas. Start by walking more, then add more activities like jogging and bicycling.
Practice relaxation.
If you feel stressed out because you can’t have a cig, try a relaxation technique like yoga or deep breathing exercises. Many ex-smokers have found solace in hypnosis or massage. Don’t feel guilty about spending money on a weekly massage or yoga classes—think of all the cash you’re saving by not buying cigarettes!
Join a group.
If you’re not getting the support you need from family or friends, look outside for companionship and encouragement. Find a stop-smoking program in your neighborhood or online and learn from the experiences of others. It always helps to know that you’re not alone when fighting an addiction, so let yourself share with others.
Having the camaraderie of other ex-smokers can help you get over the rough spots when you feel like giving up. If your spouse is tempting you to start again, or you’re having problems getting over your cravings, it helps to have a sympathetic ear. Besides, reading their success stories will convince you that you can do it, too!
Try a nicotine substitute.
If you’ve been trying your best, but are still having cigarette cravings, check out nicotine substitutes like patches, gums and lozenges available over the counter. There are also stop-smoking prescription drugs like bupropion (Zyban) and varenicline (Chantix). Obviously, it’s better to try to stop on your own, but if you need a little help, go for it.
Whatever it takes to stop smoking, it will be worth it. You’ll see the difference in your health as well as your bank account, so just keep working toward your goal! It's not easy but you can do it.
Written on 7/22/2013 by Linda Cauthen. |