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Facing the truth is hard but something you need to do to succeed

There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting. Buddha It is sometimes very hard to hear the truth especially when it is not what you are hoping to hear. Nobody wants to be told that their lives are a mess because of their own doing? Nobody wants to feel judged, ridiculed and humiliated. Unfortunately, many times that is exactly what some of us need to make the necessary changes in our lives. If hearing the truth is harsh when coming from someone else, how about looking yourself in the mirror and speaking the truth to yourself? How about looking yourself in the eyes and admitting that: a) you are not doing the […]

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Ideas On How To Free Yourself From The Reality Trap

Have you ever been told before to be more realistic? I have spent so much of my life, being told this, especially by those closest to me, and it grates on me every time. It seems like such a harmless phrase, but that simple phrase can kill potential and creativity so quickly, especially to kids. Why do we constantly get told this anyway and especially by those closest to us? Simple, they want to protect us and take care of us; they want us to be safe and to not see us fail. It is often out of love that most people tell us to be more realistic. But despite the fact that this statement can often come from the best intentions, it is actually […]

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3 Things I Learned from Playing Big in Life

Chances are that most of us at one stage or another have found ourselves at a pivotal crossroad in our lives. Which way to turn? We have all been there. Over-thinking a decision into oblivion and flinging ourselves into a tailspin. The analytical mind whips us into a frenzy and we let our ego run wild off its leash. The human mind has a tendency to speed ahead with its I-Know-What’s-Best-For-Me-Thanks-Very-Much attitude. Yet when we think we know best, we dump the entire weight of the decision making process onto our shoulders. We get stuck on the How instead of the Why. I’m currently facing a huge decision with regards to my career. Having recently quit my job of 10 years I am dipping my […]

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5 Reasons a Female Friend is the Perfect Wingman

What is your biggest fear when you are on a date with a woman? I know a lot of guys who would say that their biggest fear is to land in the zone that no man wants to land in. As you can already imagine I am talking about the friend zone. It never feels good when a woman tells you that “you are such a nice guy, but…” especially when you are really into her. It always hurts when a woman puts you in the friend zone. However, it is not as bad as you probably think. In this situation you have the choice between two different reactions. You can either hang your head in shame, or you can accept the fact that she […]

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Tips for a Healthy Relationship

Beginning a relationship is a very easy job; but the thing which gets a little tricky is maintaining it. Every relationship faces some ups and downs, but it is totally your calibre of handling those while keeping your relationship headstrong. Here are given a couple of few tips which will help you in maintaining your relationship for a long time . Get in Touch: Hugs and kisses are very common. But simple acts similar such stroking his arm while you both are watching TV, taking his hand when you both are going for a walk, or fondling his thigh during dinner will add a different spice and naughtiness in your life. Share intimate moments frequently: Guys feel more at ease connecting with women over a […]

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The Theory of Scarcity and How It Can Change Your Life

There is a theory in economics called the theory of scarcity which basically discusses that there is limited availability of certain resources at any point in time. This basically dictates that due to the limited resource, it also means a limited number of goods can be created. This theory of scarcity exists for our lives as well. In any one moment of time, we have a limited amount of resources at our disposal: A limited amount of TIME A limited amount of MONEY A limited amount of KNOWLEDGE What we choose to do with these three resources ultimately dictates the success we have in our lives. To truly create a successful and wealthy life you need to focus your efforts on finding ways to get […]

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How to Break the Cycle of Worrying Once and For All

We all have been there. Worrying about things we cannot or have no control over. We worry about our lives, finances, health, kids and many times things that doesn’t even concerns us. In fact, many times we worry so much that even when there is nothing to worry about some of us worry about not having anything to worry about. Worrying does not solve the problem. Researchers have provided us with evidence that the more we worry the more likely things are to go badly. Some of us suffers from anxiety attacks just because we worry ourselves into bad health. There is nothing that can be resolved by worrying. It’s time to stop worrying and start finding solutions to the problems at hand. 1. In […]

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5 Ways to Calm Down Before You Shoot Ballistic Missiles at Everyone

I came across the term “Ice Glass Method” while reading the wonderful book “Predictably Irrational” by Dan Ariely. It is used for control the craving for excess shopping. In this method, the person has to put the credit card in a glass of water and then place it in the freezer. When there will be hunger for spending money, the person has to wait for the ice to melt. Till the ice melts, the shopaholic spirit within that person vanishes. Though, credit card is not affected, but it is quite irrational way of holding the shopping monster within any person. Now, let us connect this technique in our personal life. Whenever we become angry, we become like a ballistic missile thrashing all the things coming […]

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Haters Gonna Hate (And What you Can Do About It)

You’ve got a dream, and it’s a big one. Maybe you want to quit your job, get a promotion, get married, or conceive the next great paper cup innovation. Whatever it is, it’s so exciting you just have to share it with everyone. So you do. But along with smiles and nods come scowls and awkward looks. Turns out not everyone’s as excited as you are about your dream. Some people don’t like your idea, others don’t think you’ll succeed, and still more dish out advice you didn’t ask for. Congratulations, you’ve met the haters. Why Haters Hate Haters are the people you wish you’d never talked to, the ones who make you feel inadequate. They criticize your dreams and ideas. They erode your confidence. […]

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5 Secrets of Long Distance Relationships

As they say about a long distance relationship, that a smooth and healthy relationship can prove to be a blissful whereas a suffocating one can lead to intoxication for freedom. Living away from your partner is hard. But maintaining the relationship even while being miles apart is even more stressful. The lack of presence, inability to meet, absence of a face-to-face conversation and not being able to have physical intimacy can have saddening effect on both the partners. But all these issues are quite common, if the bond between the two is absolutely true. Instead of being apprehended, you should prepare for a healthy environment. If you guys, genuinely and deeply love each other than nothing, absolutely nothing can break you apart. If you’re going […]

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