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3 Selfish Rules That Will Make You Happy

From a young age we are being taught to be selfless. To consider the feelings of the people around us and put them before our own. Selfless people are likeable, always nice to be around and they just make our lives a little bit easier. But are they happy? Some of them certainly are. I am not saying there is no happiness to be found in helping others. Especially the people that are close to your heart deserve to be treated the best way possible. But there is a limit to how much selflessness is good for you. If you cannot say no and are always thinking about what others have to say, you won’t be successful. Even worse, you won’t be happy. If you […]

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3 Uncommon Ways To Be More Positive

“It makes a big difference in your life when you stay positive.” ― Ellen DeGeneres If you were to Google – “how to be positive” you’d come across over 1 billion results for those keywords. And If you were to Google – “how to think positive” you’d come across half the amount for those keywords. And the average article on this topic covers common tips most of us are aware of. In this post, I’m going to cover uncommon ways for you to be more positive in your everyday life. Practical steps that all of us can take no matter what the circumstances are. 1. Stay true to yourself. “Be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.” […]

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5 Things to Remember When you’re about Give Up

There are times when despite our hard work, optimism and good intentions, we fail to make progress on our goals. All of our efforts seem wasted. We lose hope in our abilities. We become demotivated and angry. In this negative state of mind, we persist with less than enough vigor and enthusiasm, our efforts become half-baked and the result we crave continues to elude us. When this happens, it’s easy for us to lose hope and want to give up, telling ourselves, maybe I’m not carved out for this after all. I’ve been there. But for me, giving up wasn’t an option. So I learn to turn thing around and see them from different perspectives. I learn that there are always other aspects we’ve not […]

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Take Your Love Life To A Racey Track With These 7 Tips

To spend the whole life in the arms of the person we love is something most desired. Are you in a relationship and looking forward to settle in your life now? That’s amazing but you should understand that being in love is not enough to ensure a fairytale life where the boy and girl lives happily ever after, the story actually begins from the point you two commit to be with each other forever. The post below offers 7 tested tips that will take your love life right to a racey track. 1. Send him romantic messages or notes Yes, he knows that you love him but a few love words every now and then would make your relationship even more special and cherishing. Woo […]

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When Putting Yourself First May Be The Least Selfish Thing You Can Do

We’re better to others when we’re at our physical, mental, and emotional best. Ironically, sometimes we’re so busy doing things for others that we forget to take care of ourselves. We may not see the negative effects at first, but before long, we’ll start breaking down like a car that’s skipped a few oil changes. Why This Matters To paint a picture of what can happen if we don’t practice self-care, I’ll share this little confession – it’s about the time when I had an emotional breakdown. I became so unhinged that I had the dog cowering behind the toilet. My Confession I was just leaving work. The weather was perfect but the way I dragged my feet made it seem like every step to […]

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Mom vs. Mom – Why Going back to Work does not Make you a Bad Mother

New mothers, especially with comfortable financial means have always had the freedom to choose between going back to work and staying at home after the birth of a child. However, in spite of all the progress that has been taking place socially, there are a large number of mothers who believe that choosing work over child rearing would make them bad people. Other findings worth considering – • A recent survey with regards to working mothers exhibited a significant gender gap with regards to attitudes towards this consideration. 45%of women suggested that children are better off if the mother chooses to stay at home. However, 38% said that the kids are equally well off if the mother chooses to go back to work. On the […]

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5 effective ways to reduce your stress levels

The 21st century has led to our lives being exposed to the constant stress. It is attributed to the different issues that we deal with on a daily basis. It includes the health issues, the financial freedom, issues in relationships, a bossy boss, and so forth. We are all aware of the effects of stress in our lives. It can lead to a lack of concentration at work, relationship issues with your partner, and at times suicidal thoughts. It can also lead to depression. It is important to seek the help of a health practitioner when you realize that your stress is taking a toll on you. Your willpower can be damaged by stress. It can prevent you from reaching your goals. However, you should […]

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Is Honesty Really the Best Policy?

Not everyone is a born smart or Genius. As we grow old, we get that funny feeling. There were lot of fights and quarrels , that could have been avoided. Many things were meaningless. There were not worth dying for. This is like what they say….Growing up. There were so many people, whom we met in our adult hood. They left. We moved on. I remember hearing from my old friends, that time has changed in this generation. Now, I see myself saying it sometime. Actually, nothing has changed. Life , society and world has been like that for so many centuries. Its just the outlook, design , facilities and infrastructure that vary with the time, otherwise, life remains same. Its us , who evolve. […]

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5 Ways Video Games Can be Good For You

Growing up, a lot of us heard our parents, teachers and other authority figures telling us that all that video gaming was going to hurt our eyesight, give us headaches and ruin our lives. Now that the world of video gaming is a multi-billion dollar industry with not just careers but degrees in their conception, design and implementation, there’s no better time to be a gamer. Not surprisingly, many studies have been completed that take a scientific approach that dissects all the different aspects of gaming. Researchers have compiled data that encompasses years of following regular gaming enthusiasts and they have come up with some fascinating conclusions that gaming can be beneficial. The following list of 5 ways that video games can be good for […]

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Blast Your Divorce Fears in these 3 Steps

Divorce sucks: it throws our world in a tailspin and we usually feel like we have no idea what we’re doing. We’re scared of the unknown, and it’s hard to imagine every being happy again. But it doesn’t have to be that way. The next time you feel panicked during your divorce, there are three easy steps that will get you feeling back in control. 1. Write down all of the things you’re feeling afraid of–the sources of your fear-based stress. Do this wherever you want–in a journal, on your laptop, on your smart phone or iPad. It doesn’t matter where, just someplace where you have easy access. 2. Be completely honest with yourself! No fear or concern is ever irrational, stupid, or unreasonable. Some […]

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