About.com's Sheri & Bob Stritof wrote an article that I think compliments Jay's comments in 10 Tips To Make Your First Year Of Marriage Easier.
It's about nagging and why it doesn't work.
Nagging can become a vicious cycle.
The more you nag, the more your mate avoids you or withdraws both emotionally and physically from you, so the more you nag.
Is this really how you want to live?
The Stritofs go into what nagging is and why you do it as well as alternatives and what to do if you are on the receiving end of habitual nagging.
What are your thoughts on nagging; within a marriage and out?
Why Nagging Doesn't Work - [About.com]
